This is a question that should be asked daily. Once you are focused on the rungs, it can be hard to remember what is at the top.
I remember two somewhat related stories from a strange series (strange mostly because they had been inadequately translated from an Oriental language) that our Sensei’s produced for all too brief a time about trying to achieve difficult goals. The first involved a pilot who files a flight plan before take off, and though he arrives at his destination, is never actually on that flight path but is always correcting towards it and is therefore successful. And the other was about a person trying to cross a field full of pitfalls, and because he only watched his feet to avoid falling, never makes it to the other side.
Now there is nothing I can do if your goals are bad and you are happy with them. If the pursuit of wealth or popularity is what floats your boat, and you are not particular about where that wealth comes from or with whom you are popular, then we will never see eye to eye. But I remember an erstwhile friend once mentioning feeling like he had suddenly opened his eyes and found himself at a party with people he didn’t like and it was two in the morning and he couldn’t remember how he got there.
It is never too late to leave the party …
And while I am remembering good advice, I also remember a dearly departed friend trying to make me understand that the price of a stock or commodity, or really anything, contained all the information available, and that everyday one should reevaluate what one held. Not following that advice cost me a lot.
My rambling point? Everyday you need to check where your ladder is leaning and decide if that is somewhere you can and should go. What is past is past, but as it is for Scrooge on Christmas Eve, the future is not yet written, and you are not wedded to past behaviour. Who else has ladders leaning on your same wall? Do you admire those people? Are they bringing happiness to the people in their lives? Are they forces of positive change or constant negativity? Have you benefited from sharing in their goals? Is there a better wall on which you could lean your ladder?
Have a thoughtful Thursday and try to do no harm.
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